Our FLR – Female Led Relationship


August 2015

A text I sent… #2

Here is another text I sent her shortly after #1:

  • I truly want and desire for you to dominate me. I’m yearning for you to stop holding back, take this wherever you desire. Don’t want you to worry about if I will like or want it, if it is your desire, then do it… Tell me to do it… Make me do it…. I have no boundaries, you have full freedom to take me wherever you want. My promise to you is that if we reach a point or action that I’m not 100% comfortable with and willing, I will let you know.  I can honestly say that, with our current situation, I have never felt more secure in any relationship than I do right now with you. Your ownership of me fulfills a void that I have always desired and needed. I have truly never felt more loved than what I am currently feeling from you.  So…. I emphatically love you… I’m unequivocally yours… You own me body, spirit, soul… Therefore, please take full ownership of me.

A text I sent…. #1

Here is a copy of a text I sent to my Dom Wife:

  • In case I haven’t told you lately, I am so happy and honored to be wearing this chastity cage for you. It a constant reminder that I’m yours and it is my place to serve and please you. It also reiterates that my sexual pleasure is no longer a factor, and your pleasure is all that matters.  

New Base Ring Arrived

The prior photo of my chastity cage was with the smaller base ring that was way to small.  Yesterday we received a larger base ring in the mail. It fits like a glove.  Other than some soreness and slight irritation from wear the smaller ring, the new larger ring is great, do not foresee any reason that I will not be able to wear the cage 24/7 as my wife desires.  I absolutely love that she is so happy with me for wearing this.  

A little tight…. But well worth it!


Male Chastity

Several days ago, after a bit of discussion, we ordered my husband’s first chastity device. We shopped for it online together, finally settling on a stainless steel cage with a urethra tube. It arrived Wednesday in the mail. After sanitizing the entire thing, we tried it on him. The actual penis cage fits perfectly. The basal ring however, is a bit tight so we have since ordered a larger size to accommodate his rather “perky” balls. He is still currently unable to use the tube, however, he is in the process of stretching his urethra to allow the tube to be inserted.

He has worn the cage now on several occasions, including all day on Thursday and Friday while we were out shopping and running errands. He complained very little of any discomfort, but what little he did have seemed to be alieviated with some powder. Much to his relief, it was not noticable under his pants.

I must say that I was thrilled to have him wear it in my presence, in public. It was very much a power trip for me. I found myself staring quite often at his crotch, probably with a ridiculous grin on my face. Tomorrow will be his first day to wear it to work. I’m sure he is a bit nervous about that, but I am absolutely exhilarated! I’m planning to keep him locked for an entire week, beginning the day his larger basal ring arrives, which I’m hoping will be tomorrow. I also intent to set up an orgasm schedule for him, which will be based on his behavior. I’m thinking….an orgasm per week if his behavior is good, but adding two days each time he displeases me to begin with. Although, I won’t promise him these times won’t be extended in the future…. 😉

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